Adventures in Courage: How We Can Be Super Heroes in the Real World!

Guest Post by Jennifer Brown Banks 

“Live your life with courage. It’s from this that all other virtues come.”

Young Super Hero Standing on Laundry MachinesWhen most people think about courage, they think of heroic acts like firefighter rescues, or the good Samaritan that foils a robbery attempt, or the soldier that goes to war to defend the liberties of our country.

Even when we as writers “craft” heroes or protagonists in our creative pieces, we pen them with the power to leap buildings, or defy bullets, or as possessing super human strength.

But the good news is that courage doesn’t have to be brazen or bold. We can tap into it as mere “mortals.”

Courage can be something as simple as making a tough decision to challenge the status quo. Or it can be trying something different that takes us out of our comfort zone–like quitting a job or moving to a new city.

As such, we don’t have to look to characters in the novels that we read to be inspired or to embrace it.

Here are five real life examples where we can show courage, and grow mentally and spiritually, so we become that super hero we admire!

Episodes in courage…

The Courage to Forgive Others

This is not to offend. But it amazes me that some people can hold a grudge longer than they can hold a job. Hello? I’ve heard of family members that didn’t speak to each other for years over a simple misunderstanding. Or women who “can never forgive” the man that broke their heart. And this is certainly not to trivialize anyone’s feelings; but many times we must summon the courage to look beyond other’s faults and indiscretions and simply move on. Why? Because in so doing, it allows us to be “free.” Free from anger, free from being a victim, free from wasted energy. A bitter heart blocks the beauty of life. Leave it to karma to even the score, if you feel you were unjustifiably wronged. You’ll sleep better too.

The Courage to Forgive Ourselves

Nobody’s perfect. And most of us, given the days of our youth, would probably admit that there would be some aspect of our lives that we’d do differently, if we could turn back the hands of time. We can’t. Consider that the lessons you made from those mistakes and the wisdom and strength gained, helped you to become more realized and more empathetic to other people’s experiences and pain. There’s always a trade-off in life.

The Courage to be Different

The media, fads, and cultural dictates often cause us to wear what others wear, emulate their actions, and buy into their way of thinking, in order to be socially accepted, and part of the “in crowd.” But as intelligent adults, it’s important to recognize that independent thinking, based upon our own personal values, lifestyles, personality, and goals will provide for a much better quality of life and long-term satisfaction.

The Courage to Love

Opening our hearts can be scary. Truth is, there are no guarantees in love. It renders us vulnerable. It often makes us do silly things and breaks down our defenses. It can cloud our judgment. And it can go terribly wrong and cause us to have a “achey breaky heart.” But living without love is like living in a world void of color. Can you imagine how bland that would be? Take a chance. There’s great truth to the adage: “It is better to have lived and loved than never to have loved at all.” Make 2013 a year of passion in all areas of your life.

The Courage to Stand up for our Convictions

Whether it’s the courage to speak up for someone who is unfairly being gossiped about at work, delivering our own “truths” as writers, or defending our religious beliefs, sometimes standing up for our principles really takes courage. But, you don’t need to “preach” to teach. In the words of Benjamin Franklin, “Sometimes the best sermon is a good example.”

These are just five simple ways we can redefine courage in the way that we live, and realize we all have the potential to become heroes in the decisions that we make daily.

Jennifer Brown Banks is a veteran freelance writer, ghost writer and pro blogger. Her work has appeared in various blogs and magazines including: Pro Blogger, Men With Pens, Write to Done, and Technorati.

Her blog, Pen and Prosper, was recently chosen as one of “The Power 100”–Best blogs for Modern Writers in 2013.

25 thoughts on “Adventures in Courage: How We Can Be Super Heroes in the Real World!

  1. I’d like to thank Jennifer, who’s always willing to engage and provide insight, for sharing this post!

  2. I love this definition of courage! It’s so true. Sometimes just making the decision to forge ahead on a project requires courage. It all contributes to character building – which is a good thing!
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  3. I agree, and love this definition of courage! I find I must muster courage when feeling inadequate for a big writing project. Building character along the way…:) Good post, thanks so much!
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    • You may delete this comment if you wish. I apologize for the duplicate comments! I had trouble posting the first one and told Jen I would return and try again. But now I see it did go through after all. Thanks so much!
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  4. I love this article….thank you for reminding me that courage is more than just heroic acts! We have to be courageous with our everyday acts in life! It so easy sometimes just to take the easy way out…. 🙂 But having the courage to do things we should will get us past so many obstacles in life!

  5. I think courage to forgive is the hardest one, especially if the person doesn’t act like they need forgiveness. The courage to love seems to stem from forgiveness, both your partner and yourself.

    What about the courage to believe in yourself? A low self-esteem affects every area of your life.
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  6. Thank you for a wonderful article. Indeed, we all look for the big, heroic opportunities, not realizing that a life well lived is the best example of courage.

    Love the quote you have included.

  7. Jen,

    Great tips. Inspiring.

    I’m going to add a point as a tie-in between your tip on forgiving others and standing up for our convictions, because the two sometimes go hand-in-hand. Forgiving others is something we do more for ourselves than for the person who hurt us. To further self-care and depending on how severe the offender’s behavior was, we can forgive the offender in our heart while refusing to associate with that person until he/she has made meaningful strides to end his/her destructive behavior. It takes courage to forgive, definitely, but equal courage to say, “I forgive you for past wrongs but will not tolerate any further mistreatment.” Call it tough love or healthy boundaries, but I think when you become your own hero, you find the courage to stand taller in situations outside of yourself as well.

    I hope that makes sense because it’s late here in my corner of the world, but I had to stop by and add to your insightful piece! Be well…

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